A psychologist presents information on the physiological functioning of the brain and how different chemicals may contribute to the propensity for an affair.
Interesting, but don’t get carried away with this theory. What comes first, the chicken or the egg?
Check out Dr. Roher’s blog post at http://droherpsychotherapy.com/blog/marital-infidelity-part-5/
I have a question why is it that my wife cheated on me why is it that she lied about it why did she not seem to be too scared for me to find out she says she loves me I asked her why she did it she says she doesn’t know I found out we were half pregnant February 5th 2016 she cheated on me again March 27th 2016 she said she was going to see her son at our momma your momma was seeing her ex come to find out she slept with him I can the next day down there to bring the kids candy to bring her cigarettes drinks she kissed me with the same mouth she told me her favorite color with brown she lied it’s pink she gave me an STD twice then lied about it and then finally admitted it why mind you I gave her the ring that bind us together she said she had never cheated on me after that she cheated two more time she still doesn’t know why she did it she doesn’t want me to leave her and I’m not going to leave her but I need to know how to deal with this how to go on I don’t want to Harbor the things that she done to me she called me one night she was at a gas station she said that she was bleeding that was the first time she was pregnant come to find out it wasn’t mine she had an abortion I bet you’re in my driveway on my knees that I would give her $10,000 to keep the child she wanted 7 days later and had the abortion didn’t know if it was mine or whoever she cheated with the same guy for times she held him back and forth to work in the car I fixed for while she was away I called her called and called text out of the 18 days that she was first gun all she could say one time was I care for you not I love you I care for you the same guy I’m talking about I helped her pay off the troubleshoot he got her in $6,000 worth of Court find also paid off another fan of hers from another guy she had this was before she cheated the last two times she says she loves me how can someone love you and do that how can someone disgrace the sanctity of marriage now mind you March 27th my son was already in her stomach she cheated on me again she said she just wanted to go down there and see your son and her momma’s that was a lie she want to go see our son and you but she wanted to see him I feel like leaving her and never looking back but I barely get that sentence out of my mouth and it makes me cry because I love this woman beyond all measure I can’t stop thinking about her when she’s not away what do I do I need I need help I need something to I need I need release I need peace for me and my newborn baby Moses he’s beautiful she cheated on me get it now 430 something days after our son was conceived what about it he wouldn’t come see you then and and and if she would have come home with his baby I think about that how much that would have killed me but then I think because she’s done it with she’s already got a kid with him and he’s a deadbeat a loser he goes around Rob’s I mean not Rockwell your Robs and breaks into houses and steal stuff and he takes his son around on these little trips and and I’m thinking of all the wrong that he doesn’t all the bad that he had done to my wife and she still done that with him he robbed me for $5,000 I took my son’s Xbox One bunch of rings oh by the way when he done that was the very next night that she was the very first night she slept with him the next night he went and rob me while I was down there her house don’t know if she had anything to do with it I don’t want to think she did I’m at a Crossroads I’m sitting on my bed with my two month old son beside of me and he’s so precious I’m battling in my head what to do please help me help me stop this damn memories
By the way when she was doing all of this I was sitting at the house tongue tied I couldn’t do anything all I could do was think of her and I let myself into congestive heart failure my heart to 41% at the moment I have to take pills the rest of my life I drove myself literally to death worrying about her making sure she was okay making sure her little boy was okay making sure they were making sure that they knew that I love them she wouldn’t never answer the phone no wonder thank you for listening
I say to all the men and women out there that are cheating on their spouses their girlfriends or boyfriends stop you may not care what you put them through but they do don’t tear them apart don’t take their last bit of freaking dignity and throw it away just because you want to or you can you tear him apart and you care her apart and you just let him go and then the next person that truly wants to love them and show them that there is a better life out there they don’t see it all I could do was questioning you because they’re going to think that you’re going to do the same thing that he did or she did I have a whole corn in my heart straight through my son’s help feeling it I’m going to stay with her I’m going to love her forever and stay with her forever because one day don’t know when it’s going to be she’s going to open her eyes and she’s going to realize what she has done and then she’s going to realize holy s*** he’s still here