I want to talk briefly about my upcoming webinar, C.O.P, which means “Confronting the Other Person.” Sometimes, don’t you feel like a C.O.P or a detective, trying to figure our what the other person is doing, thinking, their focal point being? This all demands a tremendous amount of energy.
My first C.O.P. webinar will be tomorrow, Thursday, 9/30/2010 at 5:00 EST. Throughout the course of this webinar I’m going to introduce some ideas I have on confronting the OP as they relate to the seven types of affairs that are outlined in my e-book, Break Free From the Affair.
It was always a question of mine, “Should a person confront or not confront the other person in the affair?” I really didn’t have a strong feeling about that. I guess my major thought was, “No, that probably isn’t a good idea…it’s probably just going to stir up a hornets nest.”
However, I didn’t have much material or enough information to back up this thought. I didn’t find much research on the subject, mainly because it’s something that’s hard for people to talk about.
So, I sent out a survey to my readers on C.O.P. and I asked them to relay their experiences. I got 400-500 stories back from people about either confronting or not confronting the other person, what happened, the disasters and the successes. It was a tremendous resource for me to go over those stories and look at people’s experiences.
For some, the experience was very positive and rewarding. For others, confronting the other person was a complete disaster. I took all the stories and began to organize and think through those stories and underlying reasons.
What I want to do in my first workshop is look at the 7 types of affairs, and whether or not it would be a good idea or problematic to confront the other person.
Go ahead and sign up for my webinar. It’s free, and I will have some goodies to share with you for signing up.
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February 14th, 2011 at 4:22 am
Thanks for your work. It is always great to see someone in the field of battle. The more these issues are discussed the greater chances there are for people to recover from the devastation of infidelity. A lot of good people have lost all hope but thanks to you some will find that hope renewed.
Thanks Again,
Pastor Vance Williamson