Comments on: Infidelity Q&A #5: Do I Confront the Other Person? http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2010/03/15/infidelity-qa-5-do-i-confront-the-other-person/ to Survive and Cope with Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs Thu, 02 Feb 2012 21:06:05 -0800 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: May http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2010/03/15/infidelity-qa-5-do-i-confront-the-other-person/comment-page-1/#comment-52528 May Mon, 02 Aug 2010 02:28:55 +0000 http://www.infidelity-help.com/?p=751#comment-52528 Truth will always hurt both cheaters and their spouses when found out. I have found whether you or someone else tells, the truth eventually comes outanyway. I experienced this and wish someone would have come to me with the truth. The lies, secrets become worse and the farther you get away from truth the more difficult it is to save a marriage and forgive a cheater. It is not revenge, it is truth and you are already living with it and will continue to do so with bad feelings. When in doubt "shout" Truth will always hurt both cheaters and their spouses when found out. I have found whether you or someone else tells, the truth eventually comes outanyway. I experienced this and wish someone would have come to me with the truth. The lies, secrets become worse and the farther you get away from truth the more difficult it is to save a marriage and forgive a cheater. It is not revenge, it is truth and you are already living with it and will continue to do so with bad feelings. When in doubt “shout”

]]> By: Fred Dinglehoffer http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2010/03/15/infidelity-qa-5-do-i-confront-the-other-person/comment-page-1/#comment-51870 Fred Dinglehoffer Sun, 13 Jun 2010 02:53:26 +0000 http://www.infidelity-help.com/?p=751#comment-51870 Wife cheated on me. I've spoken to the other guy, but have not decided to tell his wife. He is begging me to not tell the wife, but I'd like to get some revenge and save face. What should I do? Wife cheated on me. I’ve spoken to the other guy, but have not decided to tell his wife. He is begging me to not tell the wife, but I’d like to get some revenge and save face. What should I do?

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