Comments on: Have you Had an Affair with Tiger?

By: julita fernandez

julita fernandez — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 15:52:11 +0000

It has been more than 3 years ago since i’ve learned of my husband’s emotional affair with his officemate. he shunned himself from that married woman after our confrontation then. we are in good terms now as he has already retired two years ago. but until now the memory of his affair keeps haunting me. i think of this almost every morning when i wake up although i don’t tell him about it to avoid argument. please help me how to forget all of these bad dreams.
thank you very much.

By: susan

susan — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 15:36:31 +0000

do i need to accept the fact that my husband is weak so i’ve got to live with it?

By: Diedre

Diedre — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 22:36:42 +0000

It is all about filling the hole inside of one’s self. And I don’t just think it is the person who has the affair who has the hole…it is both people. I don’t think it matters if it is a man or a woman, because as you know it takes two to have an affair. I do think the man’s ego needs to be stroked more frequently, but affairs are ego boosters for the women also, by proving to them that they can “steal” your husband. It is the old thing of you always want what you cannot have. My husband now ex has a string of women on the line at all times. In other words cannot live without the admiration of someone. I too told him, I would love him no matter what he did and I would, but he could not admit to the truth and so I have to ask myself, what was it I did to make him unable to tall me the truth.

By: KIM

KIM — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 15:32:06 +0000

I feel for Tiger’s wife. Although I am not a celebrity like them, my husband has had at least 10 affairs that I know of and 4 or 5 going on at the same time. It was actually easier for me knowing he was lying to all these women too. I also think it was easier than there just being “one” special other person. I also wonder do all these other women possess parts of “me” – meaning are they like me. Any help dealing with a sex addict?

By: Nancy

Nancy — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 13:06:42 +0000

I think men particularly want to be viewed as “heroes” to their wives and families. When their cheating is exposed, it is very hard for them to live with the fact that others now know about their weakness and failings. I told my spouse ( now my ex) that true love is knowing the whole person, including their shortcomings and failures and choosing to love them anyway. Anyone can love a so called “hero”, it takes real heart to love a human being.