http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2009/11/28/tiger-woods-involved-in-infidelity-and-affair-probably/ to Survive and Cope with Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs Thu, 02 Feb 2012 21:06:05 -0800 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2009/11/28/tiger-woods-involved-in-infidelity-and-affair-probably/comment-page-1/#comment-42448 Petra Sun, 29 Nov 2009 12:08:12 +0000 http://www.infidelity-help.com/?p=663#comment-42448 Dr Bob, I think my WH could fit this profile to a T! He is a church leader, knonw in the high-profile business world as a man with insurmountable intigrity and ... rather conservative regarding his belief and value systems. As you have mentioned everybody who got to know about his perverse affair, with a substandard, gold-digging type of uninteresting woman (former colleague on the bottom ladder of the organisational hierarchy,were totally shocked about his controversial behaviour. Me perhaps most of all. OW also earned herself a 'nickname' amongst the top management (WW happened to be her 3rd victory), her target market, as the 'man hunter'. I had a major nervous breakdown about 2 days after they had been caught by her husband who also worked for the same employer and for many years used to look up at him as his mentor. He has disappointed so many people with his promiscious behaviour. He has wrecked our 25 year marriage by engaging in transactional sex with her. After 16 months I still find it extremely hard to contemplate reconciling with him and we only co-habit for the past couple of months for my daughter's sake, how much I have invesed for such a long period, and thus mostly for financial reasons, as I am unable to get him to release me on reasonable terms. I am not in a position to start working again, since we have only one child of 11 years and who is a learning disabled child with challenging attention needs. So I'm stuck and feel trapped. I mostly feel so despondent with regard to my given circumstances and have this predominant feeling of just wanting to get OUT, almost as if incarcerated, but fail to find a workable solution. Anyway, actually just wanted to tell you that your analysis re Tiger brings quite a lot home to me as well. Thank you so much for what major contribution you make to us. What a great site, expecially the support forum, to hang onto during times of distress and to gain extra knowlede on the dynamics of affairs. Blessings. Dr Bob, I think my WH could fit this profile to a T! He is a church leader, knonw in the high-profile business world as a man with insurmountable intigrity and … rather conservative regarding his belief and value systems. As you have mentioned everybody who got to know about his perverse affair, with a substandard, gold-digging type of uninteresting woman (former colleague on the bottom ladder of the organisational hierarchy,were totally shocked about his controversial behaviour. Me perhaps most of all. OW also earned herself a ‘nickname’ amongst the top management (WW happened to be her 3rd victory), her target market, as the ‘man hunter’. I had a major nervous breakdown about 2 days after they had been caught by her husband who also worked for the same employer and for many years used to look up at him as his mentor. He has disappointed so many people with his promiscious behaviour. He has wrecked our 25 year marriage by engaging in transactional sex with her. After 16 months I still find it extremely hard to contemplate reconciling with him and we only co-habit for the past couple of months for my daughter’s sake, how much I have invesed for such a long period, and thus mostly for financial reasons, as I am unable to get him to release me on reasonable terms. I am not in a position to start working again, since we have only one child of 11 years and who is a learning disabled child with challenging attention needs. So I’m stuck and feel trapped. I mostly feel so despondent with regard to my given circumstances and have this predominant feeling of just wanting to get OUT, almost as if incarcerated, but fail to find a workable solution. Anyway, actually just wanted to tell you that your analysis re Tiger brings quite a lot home to me as well. Thank you so much for what major contribution you make to us. What a great site, expecially the support forum, to hang onto during times of distress and to gain extra knowlede on the dynamics of affairs. Blessings.

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