What do you do if your spouse, with the affair exposed, continues seeing the other person?
Ambivalence often rules.
Get tips on how to verbally confront the ambivalence.
But, first start with THE question.
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August 30th, 2009 at 2:34 am
Hello Dr. I am not ambivalent at all. I have told her if she contacts him again i will divorce her. I simply will not tolerate it. I encouraged her to seek professional help if she’s hurting–and I think she is but she won’t admit to me how deeply involved she became. She has admitted this to her friends. I know because when I found out I cyber-stalked her for a moonth. It actually kicked my a**. I was totally wiped out, exhausted. I no longer want to waste that much energy on something so pointless. If she decides to go there again, thre’sreally nothing I can do to stop her. She knows my position on the matter so it would be a conscious decision. ill be her decision and the end of our marriage will be the result. I can handle that.