http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2009/08/10/confronting-cheating-spouse-about-the-affair/ to Survive and Cope with Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs Thu, 02 Feb 2012 21:06:05 -0800 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2009/08/10/confronting-cheating-spouse-about-the-affair/comment-page-1/#comment-37778 ivan schou Tue, 11 Aug 2009 00:11:37 +0000 http://www.infidelity-help.com/?p=638#comment-37778 i know about being accused of being abusive nothing but a drunk all the rest of it.my ex and i would drink together do everything together.i work away from home.everything was good.then it changed i would come home she would not talk she would leave,i could never figure it out i never got help.then i came home from work she was gone said i was the drunk,so i went to a detox,quit drinking etc.that was no good then she said i was abusive so i went to abuse counciling.i tried everything,then the truth came out she was still drinking just with a new man and now im getting a divorce,allways be carefull in my mind when someone is acusing you of being wrong what the accusations are and the motives behind them.if someone loves someone both need to change a person is only %50 of a problem.and there is allways hope if both are commited. i know about being accused of being abusive nothing but a drunk all the rest of it.my ex and i would drink together do everything together.i work away from home.everything was good.then it changed i would come home she would not talk she would leave,i could never figure it out i never got help.then i came home from work she was gone said i was the drunk,so i went to a detox,quit drinking etc.that was no good then she said i was abusive so i went to abuse counciling.i tried everything,then the truth came out she was still drinking just with a new man and now im getting a divorce,allways be carefull in my mind when someone is acusing you of being wrong what the accusations are and the motives behind them.if someone loves someone both need to change a person is only %50 of a problem.and there is allways hope if both are commited.

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