What does it take to break free from the affair? What does it take to get to the point of influencing the direction of the affair, without “trying?”
Here are some comments from those on the journey who responded to my request to give their review of my ebook, “Break Free From the Affair.”
>>>Realized that the affair was not as a direct consequence of my actions. It also stopped me behaving in a way that would prevent the breaking free from the affair. The book has also made me center more of myself and improving my self esteem.
>>>It has helped me in regaining self-confidence before I take any decision about my marriage. Getting to know that his affair was HIS decision and not my fault, has helped me to stay strong and focused through this painful situation
>>>We finally talked – I mean REALLY talked. Where he felt safe talking and opened up. No lectures from me – no droning on about whatever I think. And I REALLY listened. It made me feel so good about myself!
>>>Knowing the type of Affair helps to understand the why, and how to go about making the decision whether or not to stay in the marriage. It’s been particularly difficult for me as this my spouse’s 3rd affair (that I know of) in our 45 years of marriage. Not really sure myself why I’m still here looking for answers.
>>>I have more information and was able to handle the situation more adaptly. I’m able to identify the person and the reason my wife strays.
>>>It was like a road map because I wanted to work on my marriage but did not have any clues.
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September 29th, 2009 at 11:24 pm
I found out 11 months ago that my husband had an affair 6 years ago. I am wondering what the statistics are for a husband to cheat a second time. I still don’t trust my husband and have anxiety when he goes out of town. I am still trying to make a decision and am just taking it one day at a time.