http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2009/07/09/how-much-do-you-tolerate/ to Survive and Cope with Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs Thu, 02 Feb 2012 21:06:05 -0800 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2009/07/09/how-much-do-you-tolerate/comment-page-1/#comment-36398 Nancy Thu, 09 Jul 2009 23:56:45 +0000 http://www.infidelity-help.com/?p=589#comment-36398 Allowing yourself time to recover and regain your bearings is essential. Confronting the other woman was not effective for me. She did not offer the opportunity to meet in person, she presented herslf as the injured party and she certainly felt no guilt or remorse. Their relationship was indivudally self-centered and created mutual disregard to their respective partners and families. I felt that their continued relationship was equal to a baseball bat being swung at me from behind. They rationalized their employment as an excuse to maintain an emotional attachment for 2 years. I am looking forward to a new stage of our relationship with them not working together. My husband lost his job 2 months age. I celebrate his chance to find a career opportunity that he will completely enjoy! I hope that they each are able to find whatever is lost within themselves to be able to rebuild their marriages. If either of them determines that their marriage is not what they truly desire, I hope they are able to be completely honest and walk away. I love my husband with all of my heart and I want for him to be happy with his life. I want to be standing beside him encouraging him and sharing a new opporunity toward finding happiness. Allowing yourself time to recover and regain your bearings is essential. Confronting the other woman was not effective for me. She did not offer the opportunity to meet in person, she presented herslf as the injured party and she certainly felt no guilt or remorse. Their relationship was indivudally self-centered and created mutual disregard to their respective partners and families.
I felt that their continued relationship was equal to a baseball bat being swung at me from behind. They rationalized their employment as an excuse to maintain an emotional attachment for 2 years. I am looking forward to a new stage of our relationship with them not working together. My husband lost his job 2 months age. I celebrate his chance to find a career opportunity that he will completely enjoy! I hope that they each are able to find whatever is lost within themselves to be able to rebuild their marriages. If either of them determines that their marriage is not what they truly desire, I hope they are able to be completely honest and walk away. I love my husband with all of my heart and I want for him to be happy with his life. I want to be standing beside him encouraging him and sharing a new opporunity toward finding happiness.

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