http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2009/07/06/after-the-affair-trust-made-easier/ to Survive and Cope with Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs Thu, 02 Feb 2012 21:06:05 -0800 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2009/07/06/after-the-affair-trust-made-easier/comment-page-1/#comment-42563 Jane Tue, 01 Dec 2009 17:41:01 +0000 http://www.infidelity-help.com/?p=583#comment-42563 you mention that you stayed in the marriage because of your love for your husband. I found myself in the same situation more than 2 years ago. however, the part that i am unable to get over (even though my husband broke contact with the OP immediately) was the fact that he said he was in love with her. he had reached teh decision to leave me for her, yet stayed with me because we were married. today he tells me that he loves me but for him he feels that he could be married to anybody and he with anyone he would have an individual set of problems / highs. basically, even though he married me because he loved me and i was the one, since the affair he was able to imagine being with someone else, and so therefore didn't come back to me because i was the one...are you able to help with any thoughts? you mention that you stayed in the marriage because of your love for your husband. I found myself in the same situation more than 2 years ago. however, the part that i am unable to get over (even though my husband broke contact with the OP immediately) was the fact that he said he was in love with her. he had reached teh decision to leave me for her, yet stayed with me because we were married. today he tells me that he loves me but for him he feels that he could be married to anybody and he with anyone he would have an individual set of problems / highs. basically, even though he married me because he loved me and i was the one, since the affair he was able to imagine being with someone else, and so therefore didn’t come back to me because i was the one…are you able to help with any thoughts?

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