Comments on: Not Painting Pictures Anymore of Him/OP http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2009/07/02/not-painting-pictures-anymore-of-himop/ to Survive and Cope with Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs Thu, 02 Feb 2012 21:06:05 -0800 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Nancy http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2009/07/02/not-painting-pictures-anymore-of-himop/comment-page-1/#comment-36396 Nancy Thu, 09 Jul 2009 23:33:50 +0000 http://www.infidelity-help.com/?p=581#comment-36396 Not painting pictures anymore is the perfect place to be. Perhaps because they stopped working together just 2 months ago, the true healing may begin for me. After 2 years, I continue to feel "pangs" of resentment and concern. I have still struggle with images of THEIR relationship vs OUR relationship. I want to stop my imagination. I have not been able to determine just what kind of affair they shared. Trust was distroyed and honesty was not something that either my husband or his paramour presented. I would like to use the "paint brush" to enhance the changes and rebuild the life we want to share. With no further disruptions by images of the ghosts of days gone by. Sending light and searching for rainbows! Nancy Not painting pictures anymore is the perfect place to be. Perhaps because they stopped working together just 2 months ago, the true healing may begin for me. After 2 years, I continue to feel “pangs” of resentment and concern. I have still struggle with images of THEIR relationship vs OUR relationship. I want to stop my imagination. I have not been able to determine just what kind of affair they shared. Trust was distroyed and honesty was not something that either my husband or his paramour presented.

I would like to use the “paint brush” to enhance the changes and rebuild the life we want to share. With no further disruptions by images of the ghosts of days gone by.

Sending light and searching for rainbows!
Nancy

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