http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2009/06/10/healing-from-infidelity/ to Survive and Cope with Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs Thu, 02 Feb 2012 21:06:05 -0800 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2009/06/10/healing-from-infidelity/comment-page-1/#comment-35275 Nancy Thu, 11 Jun 2009 23:20:34 +0000 http://www.infidelity-help.com/?p=561#comment-35275 Healing from Infidelity begins when there is a clear focus on recovery. The devastation of an affair can take a long time to subside but the recovery from an affair begins when the focus shifts to providing each individual with the primary focus of self. Once this process begins, the ability to move beyond the images, fears and heartache have to be achieved through each individual. Regaining trust is the most difficult process. Recognizing the need to be assured and to accept the barriers that the affair has created are all a means of rebuilding a better bond. It becomes better due to the constant recognition that nothing is guaranteed. We learn to appreciate what we have now in this moment. This is the primary focus of DBT and it is a true grounding source for the negative impact of an affair. The waves of insecurity become less intense and the fears become resolve. Happiness eventually allows us to regain composure and provides us with a willingness to accept the positive. Sending you light ! Nancy Healing from Infidelity begins when there is a clear focus on recovery. The devastation of an affair can take a long time to subside but the recovery from an affair begins when the focus shifts to providing each individual with the primary focus of self.
Once this process begins, the ability to move beyond the images, fears and heartache have to be achieved through each individual. Regaining trust is the most difficult process. Recognizing the need to be assured and to accept the barriers that the affair has created are all a means of rebuilding a better bond. It becomes better due to the constant recognition that nothing is guaranteed. We learn to appreciate what we have now in this moment. This is the primary focus of DBT and it is a true grounding source for the negative impact of an affair. The waves of insecurity become less intense and the fears become resolve. Happiness eventually allows us to regain composure and provides us with a willingness to accept the positive. Sending you light !
Nancy

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