http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2009/05/27/finding-infidelity-help-with-abuse-and-criticism/ to Survive and Cope with Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs Thu, 02 Feb 2012 21:06:05 -0800 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2009/05/27/finding-infidelity-help-with-abuse-and-criticism/comment-page-1/#comment-34225 Robert Thu, 28 May 2009 03:13:46 +0000 http://www.infidelity-help.com/?p=552#comment-34225 My kids are real supportive. I just found out 7 weeks ago about the betrayal that took place 18 years ago. I've put up with 18 years of abuse, criticism, and blame, had no clue what was going on or why. Now that I've decided to leave her, my adult kids are saying I should have left their mother years ago. That's what's getting me through this. I'm also seeing a therapist, and I'm on an anti-depressant. But the only thing that kept me from killing myself (literally) for the first 2 weeks after finding out was thinking about my kids. My kids are real supportive. I just found out 7 weeks ago about the betrayal that took place 18 years ago. I’ve put up with 18 years of abuse, criticism, and blame, had no clue what was going on or why. Now that I’ve decided to leave her, my adult kids are saying I should have left their mother years ago. That’s what’s getting me through this. I’m also seeing a therapist, and I’m on an anti-depressant. But the only thing that kept me from killing myself (literally) for the first 2 weeks after finding out was thinking about my kids.

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