Comments on: Confronting the Other Women: Drama X 3 http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2009/05/22/confronting-the-other-women-drama-x-3/ to Survive and Cope with Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs Sun, 15 Aug 2010 12:50:10 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Mariana http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2009/05/22/confronting-the-other-women-drama-x-3/comment-page-1/#comment-34156 Mariana Tue, 26 May 2009 20:42:52 +0000 http://www.infidelity-help.com/?p=544#comment-34156 I suspect my husband is cheating with a co-worker but I did not catch him yet, he says he wants our marriage to work but I feel that he wants the other woman and still remain married. I don't trust him I have mileage logs and hotels that he has searched online and these places are only a few miles from his work.My strong gut feeling does not want to let go of the mistrust I do love him so much it hurts.We agreed to counceling but I don't know what's going to happen.He has lied in the past making stories on being late from work without an explanation of extra miles and sometimes he will try and say that he tried a new route home and got lost. I suspect my husband is cheating with a co-worker but I did not catch him yet, he says he wants our marriage to work but I feel that he wants the other woman and still remain married. I don’t trust him I have mileage logs and hotels that he has searched online and these places are only a few miles from his work.My strong gut feeling does not want to let go of the mistrust I do love him so much it hurts.We agreed to counceling but I don’t know what’s going to happen.He has lied in the past making stories on being late from work without an explanation of extra miles and sometimes he will try and say that he tried a new route home and got lost.

]]> By: joanne http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2009/05/22/confronting-the-other-women-drama-x-3/comment-page-1/#comment-33974 joanne Sat, 23 May 2009 03:40:06 +0000 http://www.infidelity-help.com/?p=544#comment-33974 Hi, I too have a letter that I want to send the other woman but to date I have not got the nerve. I think that it is over but everyday I wake up anxious thinking that he is going to go out and see her. The letter tells her that he is with me and all she has is memories and that she is no longer fabulous a word she used to describe herself and my husband was calling her that too. Some days I think, so what, if he talks to her by email so what but I fear he will start to see her again. I just cannot seem to trust anything he says or does and I am a nervous person all the time--I waste so much time and energy on trying to be a step ahead of him so I will not be made a fool of again. He tells me that he does not see or talk to her anymore but I do not really belive that he does not e-mail her. I think that this is constant but I no longer have proof. I think that if I tell her and threaten to tell her husband if she so much as calls to say hi--i may feel better. I fear, however, how this will fly with my husband. He may get so mad at me that all the work we have done together would go by the wayside. God I wish I did not care so much, in fact I actually pray to fall out of love with my husband because then things would be easier. Hi,

I too have a letter that I want to send the other woman but to date I have not got the nerve. I think that it is over but everyday I wake up anxious thinking that he is going to go out and see her. The letter tells her that he is with me and all she has is memories and that she is no longer fabulous a word she used to describe herself and my husband was calling her that too. Some days I think, so what, if he talks to her by email so what but I fear he will start to see her again. I just cannot seem to trust anything he says or does and I am a nervous person all the time–I waste so much time and energy on trying to be a step ahead of him so I will not be made a fool of again. He tells me that he does not see or talk to her anymore but I do not really belive that he does not e-mail her. I think that this is constant but I no longer have proof. I think that if I tell her and threaten to tell her husband if she so much as calls to say hi–i may feel better. I fear, however, how this will fly with my husband. He may get so mad at me that all the work we have done together would go by the wayside. God I wish I did not care so much, in fact I actually pray to fall out of love with my husband because then things would be easier.

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