http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2009/05/09/infidelity-and-its-impact-2/ to Survive and Cope with Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs Thu, 02 Feb 2012 21:06:05 -0800 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2009/05/09/infidelity-and-its-impact-2/comment-page-1/#comment-33977 joanne Sat, 23 May 2009 03:54:13 +0000 http://www.infidelity-help.com/?p=527#comment-33977 My husbands infidelity makes me feel very inadequate and pathetic. I have always been a very strong independent woman and knew what I wanted. I can't seem to shake this even though he says it is over. I feel scared that i will lose him and wish that I actually hated him so this would not be so difficult. I have been working on me, soul searching, trying to be a better person all around. How much work do I have to do?? I am really tired and sick of all this. My husbands infidelity makes me feel very inadequate and pathetic. I have always been a very strong independent woman and knew what I wanted. I can’t seem to shake this even though he says it is over. I feel scared that i will lose him and wish that I actually hated him so this would not be so difficult. I have been working on me, soul searching, trying to be a better person all around. How much work do I have to do?? I am really tired and sick of all this.

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