http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2009/03/13/confronting-the-other-person-using-a-script/ to Survive and Cope with Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs Thu, 02 Feb 2012 21:06:05 -0800 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2009/03/13/confronting-the-other-person-using-a-script/comment-page-1/#comment-30918 Pat Sat, 14 Mar 2009 20:52:04 +0000 http://www.infidelity-help.com/?p=443#comment-30918 I also have a script for confronting the OP (actually a letter to send). This is after 1 1/2 years of discovering the affair. My reason for sending this letter is for closure for myself. I had to refrain from confronting the OP in fear that it would affect my husband's job (she works for the same company and I do not know if she would be a threat to his job). He has left his previous employer and so now I feel "free" to confront the OP, again for closure for myself. I am still unsure if he has completely "disconnected" from the OP but I feel she needs to be aware that I have been aware of the affair and basically tell her to "go away". I also have a script for confronting the OP (actually a letter to send). This is after 1 1/2 years of discovering the affair. My reason for sending this letter is for closure for myself. I had to refrain from confronting the OP in fear that it would affect my husband’s job (she works for the same company and I do not know if she would be a threat to his job). He has left his previous employer and so now I feel “free” to confront the OP, again for closure for myself. I am still unsure if he has completely “disconnected” from the OP but I feel she needs to be aware that I have been aware of the affair and basically tell her to “go away”.

]]>