I wish all of you a blessed Holiday Season, regardless of your religious/spiritual stance, nationality, race or position in your life journey at this moment in time.

You are moving. You are transitioning. You are evolving. You are growing. You are moving into your future, our future, and it is good.

Yes, the Holiday Season is a time for me to reflect on the transition, the change, the movement of life.

You see, life moves us along and if we balk at the idea of accepting and embracing that goodness which awaits us, somehow, in some way, life increases our anxiety or pain and in doing that we KNOW, at that moment, we truly DO want something better.

Those who feel the pain of infidelity most acutely are those who, at some level, want something different, want something better. Yes, you pained friends, look beneath your pain to see your determination, your fire and your desire! I bet you find it! And, you almost can’t stand it because you don’t have it now… it seems so far away.

And, I am convinced that that something better is waiting…. for all of us.

It is soooo close friends.

If infidelity is in your mix right now, this Holiday Season, and it feels like a giant cloud hanging over your life, what would happen if you see that infidelity as a glitch that is convincing you, at all levels of your being, that you truly do want something else.

You want love. You want companionship. You want honesty. You want trust. You want to laugh. You want to cry good tears. You want to feel life for everything it is and not run from it. And you would hope that at some day those you value most around you would share that exhilarating journey with you.

Maybe not now. But this too shall pass. It always does, you know! Because there is always something rich, wonderful, beautiful, uplifting awaiting you. And a part of you knows that, doesn’t it?

For me the Christmas Season is a time of birth and possibilities. Life teaches us that something new is born each day and yes, there is a journey which issues moments of confusion, pain and fear, but always, and I mean ALWAYS on the edge of that pain, fear and confusion is new birth, new discoveries, new doors which open to peace, joy discovery, wonderment and yes, birth.

It’s very close. It’s in your next moment.

Well, I feel a little rambling here. Just wanted to drop you a note today and let you know that I’m thinking about you.

Peace…. Again, this too shall pass!

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