http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/12/21/coping-with-infidelity/ to Survive and Cope with Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs Thu, 02 Feb 2012 21:06:05 -0800 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/12/21/coping-with-infidelity/comment-page-1/#comment-27959 debbie Mon, 22 Dec 2008 13:34:22 +0000 http://www.infidelity-help.com/?p=327#comment-27959 I too understand that my husband's affair was not my fault. But even in knowing that, I fond myself searching for ways to make myself better in his eyes. We are working on our marriage. He ended the affair when I found out and has been working hard to regain my trust again. People make mistakes. Sometimes really bad ones. But that doesn't make them bad people in my eyes. So, 6 months after his affair, we are working on finding us again. 6 months ago, I would have said it might not work. But I have love in my heart and these past months have helped me heal enough to see a glimmer of it back. I pray it continues to show it's face. Best wishes to all who are dealing with this...I'm hoping the old saying " Time heals all wounds", holds true. I too understand that my husband’s affair was not my fault. But even in knowing that, I fond myself searching for ways to make myself better in his eyes. We are working on our marriage. He ended the affair when I found out and has been working hard to regain my trust again. People make mistakes. Sometimes really bad ones.
But that doesn’t make them bad people in my eyes. So, 6 months after his affair, we are working on finding us again. 6 months ago, I would have said it might not work. But I have love in my heart and these past months have helped me heal enough to see a glimmer of it back. I pray it continues to show it’s face.
Best wishes to all who are dealing with this…I’m hoping the old saying ” Time heals all wounds”, holds true.

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