Read what my readers say helped them, or is helping them, repair and heal their marriage after infidelity:
>>>>>Huges, a lot of hugs, no kissing or touching just hugs. Write letters to each other.
>>>>>Accountability; we both are held accountable for our actions. Communicate more. We make an effort to talk to one another throughout our day and when the work day is over. Admitting when one is wrong and being able to say sorry.
>>>>>I called and spoke with my husbands Other person. I checked his emails to her.
>>>>>I stopped talking about it. I tried making him feel really special. and I tried to always know where he was.
>>>>>We participated in a couple’s retreat - Retrouvaille - which is all about re-learning how to communicate and repairing the damaged relationship. Through this program, we have figured out the issues that led to the affair and completely rediscovered each other. I was ready to separate on Friday afternoon, but by Sunday night I was ready to re-commit and start to forgive. Our weekend was 3 months ago and we are still using all of the principles we learned. After 10 years of marriage, we are finally starting to get to know each other.
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Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach
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