http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/11/02/resources-for-surviving-infidelity-addiction/ to Survive and Cope with Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs Thu, 02 Feb 2012 21:06:05 -0800 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/11/02/resources-for-surviving-infidelity-addiction/comment-page-1/#comment-26648 June Tue, 04 Nov 2008 00:02:46 +0000 http://www.infidelity-help.com/?p=228#comment-26648 Hi I have a very similiar situation. After ultimatums to sober up and stop philandering, my H left. he figured he would teach me a lesson to see how I farred without him. He left 2 small children, all kinds of debt I had no clue existed, and gave us nothing. After being arrested for a DUI , he was sentenced to 1 year in prison. I had nothing. His OP stood by him. He is out now, with OP. I am facing foreclosure, my children are shocked and my emotions are all over the spectrum from anger to fear, to loneliness, but mostly fear. I struggle with my feelings of how I didn't see it. I often wonder how I chose this person for my childrens father.Was I so blind to it all? was the 18 years all a farce? He had values, morals. he too was a family man. Its sounds contrary,I know, being an alcoholic, but it all honesty he put on a good show. Family field trips, family game nights the all around great dad. Little did I know it was just an "image " thing for him and we were disposable. I would love to follow the responses on this feed, but I never can see them, even when i click on the rss/xml thing. How can I see other comments? Hi
I have a very similiar situation. After ultimatums to sober up and stop philandering, my H left. he figured he would teach me a lesson to see how I farred without him. He left 2 small children, all kinds of debt I had no clue existed, and gave us nothing. After being arrested for a DUI , he was sentenced to 1 year in prison. I had nothing. His OP stood by him. He is out now, with OP. I am facing foreclosure, my children are shocked and my emotions are all over the spectrum from anger to fear, to loneliness, but mostly fear. I struggle with my feelings of how I didn’t see it. I often wonder how I chose this person for my childrens father.Was I so blind to it all? was the 18 years all a farce? He had values, morals. he too was a family man. Its sounds contrary,I know, being an alcoholic, but it all honesty he put on a good show. Family field trips, family game nights the all around great dad. Little did I know it was just an “image ” thing for him and we were disposable.
I would love to follow the responses on this feed, but I never can see them, even when i click on the rss/xml thing. How can I see other comments?

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