Comments on: Confronting the Other Person: Waste of Time http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/08/19/confronting-the-other-person-waste-of-time/ to Survive and Cope with Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs Tue, 06 Jan 2009 12:10:21 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.5 By: ulitmate betrayal http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/08/19/confronting-the-other-person-waste-of-time/#comment-24443 ulitmate betrayal Wed, 10 Sep 2008 12:51:31 +0000 http://www.infidelity-help.com/?p=116#comment-24443 I found out that they are still communicating. I don't know what to do with all of this rage and betrayal! She isn't going to leave him alone. She wants him and isn't going to stop until she gets him. I found out that they are still communicating. I don’t know what to do with all of this rage and betrayal! She isn’t going to leave him alone. She wants him and isn’t going to stop until she gets him.

]]> By: ulitmate betrayal http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/08/19/confronting-the-other-person-waste-of-time/#comment-23687 ulitmate betrayal Fri, 29 Aug 2008 18:54:06 +0000 http://www.infidelity-help.com/?p=116#comment-23687 By the way, I think that the type of affair I am facing is the revenge affair. For some reason, she convinced him the I am having an affair. He is also very jealous of my success in OUR business. I was able to help him achieve goals that he never expected. I didn't do it for myself, I did it to help HIM! Go figure, it back fired on me.... By the way, I think that the type of affair I am facing is the revenge affair. For some reason, she convinced him the I am having an affair. He is also very jealous of my success in OUR business. I was able to help him achieve goals that he never expected. I didn’t do it for myself, I did it to help HIM! Go figure, it back fired on me….

]]> By: ulitmate betrayal http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/08/19/confronting-the-other-person-waste-of-time/#comment-23686 ulitmate betrayal Fri, 29 Aug 2008 18:44:08 +0000 http://www.infidelity-help.com/?p=116#comment-23686 I had to confront the OW because she was one of my best friends and like a second mother to my child! I confronted her...finally, because I wanted her to leave my husband and family ALONE!! She caused so much pain and anguish for my daughter, because my daughter was the one that caught them and confirmed what I had suspected for a couple of months. They both denied everything repeatedly, but what they didn't realize was that I have done my homework and I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that this is true. The worst part about this is that when my daughter caught them embracing and kissing, they tried to convince her that she didn't see what she did. My daughter is a teenager and she knows what she saw. My husband continues to deny everything and insists that she will be his friend no matter what I or anyone else says. The OW even physically attacked me in front of my husband and he defended HER! Just to clear things up, I did NOT start the fight either. The amount of rage that was directed at me from her and my husband was enough to convince me that I am right about them. The outcome was what I wanted...she is leaving my husband alone now. She has moved two hours away from here. It is a shame that I had to go crazy on both of them, but now they both know the proof that I have and I think I scared them both. My husband is very angry with me and continues to make veiled threats against me. But, I am charging neutral and if he wants to leave...fine by me. There's the door! I will no longer allow the two of them to control me and my emotions or my home! Enough is enough! Would I do it again? I guess it depends on the circumstances. This affair had some really complex issues going on...and it still does. I will never allow some one to hurt me and my daughter again the way that these two very irresponsible adults did. They were acting like a couple of love sick teenagers!! How irresponsible! They never gave a thought to how all of this might hurt our children! That is the worst part of all of this! I had to confront the OW because she was one of my best friends and like a second mother to my child! I confronted her…finally, because I wanted her to leave my husband and family ALONE!! She caused so much pain and anguish for my daughter, because my daughter was the one that caught them and confirmed what I had suspected for a couple of months. They both denied everything repeatedly, but what they didn’t realize was that I have done my homework and I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that this is true. The worst part about this is that when my daughter caught them embracing and kissing, they tried to convince her that she didn’t see what she did. My daughter is a teenager and she knows what she saw. My husband continues to deny everything and insists that she will be his friend no matter what I or anyone else says. The OW even physically attacked me in front of my husband and he defended HER! Just to clear things up, I did NOT start the fight either. The amount of rage that was directed at me from her and my husband was enough to convince me that I am right about them.

The outcome was what I wanted…she is leaving my husband alone now. She has moved two hours away from here. It is a shame that I had to go crazy on both of them, but now they both know the proof that I have and I think I scared them both. My husband is very angry with me and continues to make veiled threats against me. But, I am charging neutral and if he wants to leave…fine by me. There’s the door! I will no longer allow the two of them to control me and my emotions or my home! Enough is enough!

Would I do it again? I guess it depends on the circumstances. This affair had some really complex issues going on…and it still does. I will never allow some one to hurt me and my daughter again the way that these two very irresponsible adults did. They were acting like a couple of love sick teenagers!! How irresponsible! They never gave a thought to how all of this might hurt our children! That is the worst part of all of this!

]]> By: bernadette http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/08/19/confronting-the-other-person-waste-of-time/#comment-23508 bernadette Mon, 25 Aug 2008 17:55:52 +0000 http://www.infidelity-help.com/?p=116#comment-23508 iv been with my husband 31 years hes been seeing fiona 3 years be for my husband shes all so had flins with three of his brothers what short of person is she or i should i say same thing about him animal both of them thanks bernie iv been with my husband 31 years hes been seeing fiona 3 years be for my husband shes all so had flins with three of his brothers what short of person is she or i should i say same thing about him animal both of them thanks bernie

]]> By: decor17 http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/08/19/confronting-the-other-person-waste-of-time/#comment-23275 decor17 Thu, 21 Aug 2008 19:08:03 +0000 http://www.infidelity-help.com/?p=116#comment-23275 I confronted the OW. For me, she was able to tell me what my husband could not - the TRUTH. I confronted the OW. For me, she was able to tell me what my husband could not - the TRUTH.

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