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August 19th, 2008 at 2:01 pm
if it were only that easy…..I am still stuck, fight the urge to contact her, to ask WHY all the time…and knowing all along that she her self is suffering from Internet Addiction, the ravages of her terrible upbringing, and her acute fear of loss syndrome that she has. But why NOW? Why NOW when I have done so much? Accomplished so much for us? If I cant trust her now…how can I trust her when I go back to Iraq? WE had dreams, WE had hopes, WE were engaged just a month ago…why does she feel the need to cheat on me NOW? Especially after she was so good, so true for 5 1/2 years? its the WHY that is driving me insane…and the things that I have accomplished here now, our new life now mean NOTHING without her! How much longer? She has been dumped by two a$$holes already…yet she keeps reaching out…doing the same thing, all the while making ME the reason for it! WHY? That and a million more…WHY? Someone read my blogs, READ my stories, see my Photos….tell me WHY!
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August 19th, 2008 at 10:40 pm
I find myself stuck in phases and often repeating phases.frustration and being overwhelmed is a big phase for me, then I go back to anger, and feel guilt. I just wish there was a pill that made all this go away! I see no light at the end of the tunnel, but I have faith that this too shall pass.
August 20th, 2008 at 8:09 am
Great insight to the phases I will be going through. I just can’t wait until I reach the trust phase once again….
August 21st, 2008 at 2:53 pm
My boyfriend whom I live with has has an affair, I do know it is over, however…….there are pictures that I have seen of sexual experiences between them and I can not get them out of my mind. He has in the past and I still believe having email sex with people he has been with before, he feels that this is not a big deal because he is not doing the physical sex just the excitement of emails. I have told him how much it hurts and how degrading it is he says he is not doing it anymore but I think he is.