Comments on: Surviving Infidelity: 8 paths to cope and survive http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/07/12/surviving-infidelity-8-paths-to-cope-and-survive/ to Survive and Cope with Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs Tue, 06 Jan 2009 15:21:43 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.5 By: Confidential http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/07/12/surviving-infidelity-8-paths-to-cope-and-survive/#comment-22508 Confidential Mon, 28 Jul 2008 00:56:44 +0000 http://www.infidelity-help.com/?p=86#comment-22508 If one accepts someone after an affair aren't you lowering your expectations on how you allow people to treat you? I agree with your 8 steps as I experienced them not even knowing it. Fortunately for me, due to a/ not knowing who or if for sure there was an affair for 4 years as my spouse was totally disabled I had nowhere for the rage and anger to be expressed to. Now confirming 4 years later, I don't even have the tears. Anger yes; rage no. Although I want to get passed this I feel that if I allow this man back in to my life I would somehow be hurting myself and lowering how I allow people to treat me. You don't discuss this in your 8 steps. do you have other sites to follow? Thanks. ps - I would also love to know what makes people think that it is okay to seduce married men. I can't even imagine what type of values and morals that these women have. My first thought is that someone must have really messed them up for them to do that to another's family. If one accepts someone after an affair aren’t you lowering your expectations on how you allow people to treat you? I agree with your 8 steps as I experienced them not even knowing it. Fortunately for me, due to a/ not knowing who or if for sure there was an affair for 4 years as my spouse was totally disabled I had nowhere for the rage and anger to be expressed to. Now confirming 4 years later, I don’t even have the tears. Anger yes; rage no. Although I want to get passed this I feel that if I allow this man back in to my life I would somehow be hurting myself and lowering how I allow people to treat me. You don’t discuss this in your 8 steps. do you have other sites to follow?

Thanks.

ps - I would also love to know what makes people think that it is okay to seduce married men. I can’t even imagine what type of values and morals that these women have. My first thought is that someone must have really messed them up for them to do that to another’s family.

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