http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/03/26/emotional-infidelity-first-signs/ to Survive and Cope with Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs Tue, 06 Jan 2009 09:42:30 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.5 http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/03/26/emotional-infidelity-first-signs/#comment-28238 Marsha Thu, 01 Jan 2009 23:52:58 +0000 http://infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/03/26/emotional-infidelity-first-signs/#comment-28238 First she was my best friend and we worked for my husband. I had NO idea. The secret dinners, than he took her and her girlfriend on the "family vacation" (I refused to go), than the elaborate shopping trips for her, he lost LOTS of weight, new clothes, took her to concerts via limo's, the jewerly, the gifts to her and her girls. I spoke with the unemployeed husband, he has "no problem" with the arrangements, and just loves her new pay raise. I could go on and on...... 09 is my year to take back my life.... First she was my best friend and we worked for my husband. I had NO idea. The secret dinners, than he took her and her girlfriend on the “family vacation” (I refused to go), than the elaborate shopping trips for her, he lost LOTS of weight, new clothes, took her to concerts via limo’s, the jewerly, the gifts to her and her girls. I spoke with the unemployeed husband, he has “no problem” with the arrangements, and just loves her new pay raise. I could go on and on…… 09 is my year to take back my life….

]]> http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/03/26/emotional-infidelity-first-signs/#comment-26969 Spark Mon, 17 Nov 2008 16:10:24 +0000 http://infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/03/26/emotional-infidelity-first-signs/#comment-26969 He drank, picked fights and found fault with every aspect of our lives: family, friends, children, housekeeping, bill-paying. Distant, cold, almost contemptuous. Busier at work, nights, weekends in new job. Had his cell phone on him at all times, all vacations, weekends too! He drank, picked fights and found fault with every aspect of our lives: family, friends, children, housekeeping, bill-paying. Distant, cold, almost contemptuous. Busier at work, nights, weekends in new job. Had his cell phone on him at all times, all vacations, weekends too!

]]> http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/03/26/emotional-infidelity-first-signs/#comment-26790 George Tue, 11 Nov 2008 17:35:31 +0000 http://infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/03/26/emotional-infidelity-first-signs/#comment-26790 She started drinking more. Became some what distant.....always calling me at work. Had to see MOM all the time. Change her looks...A lift/tuck & teeth. I was the one always handling the children....and animals. LOTS of time on the computer... witch became her Achilles heal. Changed jobs for more freedom of day time. She started drinking more. Became some what distant…..always calling me at work. Had to see MOM all the time. Change her looks…A lift/tuck & teeth. I was the one always handling the children….and animals. LOTS of time on the computer… witch became her Achilles heal. Changed jobs for more freedom of day time.

]]> http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/03/26/emotional-infidelity-first-signs/#comment-22638 kris Fri, 01 Aug 2008 13:35:11 +0000 http://infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/03/26/emotional-infidelity-first-signs/#comment-22638 He started to dress better. Became very argumentative...critical of me and the marriage. Insulting...I could do nothing right. Very distant. Hiding his cell phone...infact kept it on the bedside table....saying just in case they called him from work. NEVER talked about work. Would call me frequently throughout the day...making sure where I was at. Very insistant that I would work full time. Would go out with "guy" friends after work. Would repeat his stories of daily life over and over. He started to dress better. Became very argumentative…critical of me and the marriage. Insulting…I could do nothing right. Very distant. Hiding his cell phone…infact kept it on the bedside table….saying just in case they called him from work. NEVER talked about work. Would call me frequently throughout the day…making sure where I was at. Very insistant that I would work full time. Would go out with “guy” friends after work. Would repeat his stories of daily life over and over.

]]> http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/03/26/emotional-infidelity-first-signs/#comment-20279 Joanne Wed, 14 May 2008 14:22:08 +0000 http://infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/03/26/emotional-infidelity-first-signs/#comment-20279 He became "protective" of his cell phone, always on vibrate, in his pocket, and would leave the room when it rang, new phone numbers came up in his cell with guy names that were clearly women's phones, he began talking about a female co-worker alot, when I called him he would accuse me of checking up on him, when i checked the cell bill i found those "guy" numbers called alot, he picked fights with me to leave the house, he needed "space". He became “protective” of his cell phone, always on vibrate, in his pocket, and would leave the room when it rang, new phone numbers came up in his cell with guy names that were clearly women’s phones, he began talking about a female co-worker alot, when I called him he would accuse me of checking up on him, when i checked the cell bill i found those “guy” numbers called alot, he picked fights with me to leave the house, he needed “space”.

]]> http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/03/26/emotional-infidelity-first-signs/#comment-19243 Royal Fri, 25 Apr 2008 11:11:39 +0000 http://infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/03/26/emotional-infidelity-first-signs/#comment-19243 Says she is helping him find Christianity, on the computer a 2-3 in the morning, IM start POPing on the computer, Puts a pass word on her account, Found letter to him about my married. Says she is helping him find Christianity, on the computer a 2-3 in the morning, IM start POPing on the computer, Puts a pass word on her account, Found letter to him about my married.

]]> http://www.infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/03/26/emotional-infidelity-first-signs/#comment-18239 Kate Fri, 28 Mar 2008 01:10:21 +0000 http://infidelity-help.com/blog/2008/03/26/emotional-infidelity-first-signs/#comment-18239 He dressed better, spent more time at the office, more distant, less interested in sex, secretive, thought he was HOT! He dressed better, spent more time at the office, more distant, less interested in sex, secretive, thought he was HOT!

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