?I was going through the surveys of those?who have read and used Break Free From the Affair.?

Often, the comments from others give hope and an understanding of what you might experience.

I want to share some of those with you: ?

It was helpful to identify the types of affairs my husband is having (he falls in to more than one category). I really like the scale on whether or not the marriage can be saved, and if his relationship with the other person will be successful or not.

It helped me really think about what I am getting out of this relationship - which isn’t much. I am tired of being disrespected and everything is made to be my fault when he is the one exploding for no reason. I need to put my foot down.

I have a much better understanding of what is going on and i feel as if I have some direction.

Your book helped me to reduce my panic and agitation with my wife. I could tell that the approach I started to take before reading your book was only going to drive her away and we’d never be able to resolve the core issue. then. I believe the 7 steps were very helpful, but the 12 thing people do was even more help because I was groping around for answers and I may have done the very things that you caution against.

Hit it on the nose!

Thank you thank you thank you!!!!!!!!

What I have read has hit it right on!!!!

THANK YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My wife’s type of affair is “my marriage made me do it” I have seen it hit the nail on the head. It’s the second time I’ve read it in 6 months or so and I am reminded of what to do and what not to do. What I have used so far has worked in my interactions, though it is a major challenge. She has told me nothing but “I’m outta here” but today a common friend told me she is deeply confused and unsure about what to do. I am willing to forgive but she has only indicated to me that she does not want to stop or save our marriage.

I couldn’t help thinking that it was all my fault. When I read the typ #1 affair, it was 90% my girlfriend. I realized that it was only partially my doing, and that there was little or no possibility of having an intimate relationship with her. It appeared to me that I had been in denial about her character from the start.

Very informative book It helped more than I ever thought a book could.

I was able to have a clear guide on what type of affair my husband is having, telling me what i am facing against and to be able to know what to do next.

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