Couple Shares Outcome of Emotional Affair

The guest blogger today is a couple who have survived and redesigned their marriage after the husband’s emotional affair.

They write to tell their story and help others who might be experiencing an emotional affair as well.

Here’s what the husband writes:

Linda often tells me she doesn’t understand how I could have let myself get involved in an emotional affair with another woman. I can honestly say there wasn’t any singular reason or that I was looking for some kind of mid-life thrill. It was something that just happened. Unusual circumstances at work brought Tanya and I much closer than married co-workers should become. Combine that with dissatisfaction in her marriage and the marital “rut” that Linda and I were in, and there was a recipe for this type of marital affair to occur.

We found in each other certain feelings and personality traits that were missing in our marital relationships, and the result was a kind of euphoria that wasn’t existing at home. Only through Linda’s diligent efforts to save our marriage and my snapping back into reality did I realize just how stupid I had been. If I would have just been smart enough to confide in Linda when I initially felt like we were having marriage problems, I’m certain none of this would have happened.

The foundation of our love and our relationship was still sound: our kids, our home, our history together and all the things we have in common. But somehow we let the trials and tribulations of everyday life stop us from continuing to build upon this solid foundation which resulted in my devastating emotional infidelity.

Internet Infidelity Online

Internet infidelity is rampant. Many of my coaching clients must deal with this form of infidelity… and it’s a tough one.

One of my online colleagues at www.askmaple.com specializes in this area. She has graciously offered to be a guest blogger.

Here is what she has to say:

There are many factors to determine exactly if you are facing internet infidelity. Ask yourself these questions:

Are you are a committed relationship even though you are not legally married and your partner is chatting on the net to the opposite sex?

Are you married and your spouse is on the net?

Have they purchased a cam for chats on the internet?

Does your spouse communicate with some one of the opposite sex? They may just say they are helping some one with a problem. Yes thats a big problem!

Is your spouse or committed partner talking to old flames or even former schoolmates?

If you have answered yes to any of these questions I want you to seriously know your relationship is at risk. Your spouse or partner will lie, lie and deny any of the contributing factors. They will try to make you believe they are just friends or its your imagination. I’ve seen relationships not address the situation and fall apart given time. Do you know why? You let the situation slide and it becomes more emotional for your partner to break free of the internet infidelity connection.

I urge you to address these issues immediately.

In over a decade working with people in situations like yours I know exactly what you need to know to break through the confusion and paranoia. In the end, a harmless cyber-fling spells double trouble as a spouse may leave a once long term and stable marriage because of someone they just met over the internet. The partner in a new committed relationship may even be posting their photos or profiles on dating or swinging sites. They may tell you its all in the past but is it?

Askmaple.com has much information about infidelity resources. My ebook gives practical, indepth and proven methods used effectively for thousands of victims such as yourself. To deal with the problem of internet infidelity you need to have a total comprehension about the impacts of what is occurring with your partner or spouse. Don’t put this off another indecisive confusing day – be absolutely certain. Don’t be a victim — be a survivor.

For more info, visit my web site today: http://www.askmaple.com