Archives for August 2009

What If S/he Continues Seeing OP?

What do you do if your spouse, with the affair exposed, continues seeing the other person?

Ambivalence often rules.

Get tips on how to verbally confront the ambivalence.

But, first start with THE question.

Will You Trust Again?

In my video series on surviving infidelity I answer the question, “Will I ever trust again?”

There are a couple ways of looking at this question.

You may be thinking: “will I ever trust my cheating spouse again?”

Or, another component: “Will I ever be able to to love again?”

Confronting Cheating Spouse about the Affair?

Confronting your cheating spouse depends on the type of affair facing you.

The differences are especially notable in the the “I Need to Prove My Desirability” type of affair as opposed to the “I Don’t Want to Say No” type of affair.

Learn 3 other specific tips on how to confront your spouse, including charging neutral.